Comments on: The Art of Verbal Intimidation : Learn it and fight back! http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/ Practical advice for better living Tue, 07 Oct 2008 05:23:55 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.1 By: Polymathea http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/#comment-948 Polymathea Thu, 04 Sep 2008 18:03:26 +0000 http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/#comment-948 Superbly written articles. I am in the process of building my blogs, for training purposes purely & am always on the look out for exceptional & easy to understand content. You have surpassed all expectations. If there is a backlink I could use to link with your blog directly, it would be a huge contribution. Sincerely, Sheetal Pune, INDIA Superbly written articles.

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]]> By: esanjor http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/#comment-896 esanjor Wed, 03 Sep 2008 10:41:32 +0000 http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/#comment-896 Hey, ,interesting article thank you guys. Hey, ,interesting article thank you guys.

]]> By: John Doe http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/#comment-839 John Doe Tue, 02 Sep 2008 03:04:27 +0000 http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/#comment-839 I”m a male that is just 5′2″ tall and I often find that taller males try to intimidate me or not take my input as serious as they might if I were taller. I found your article very informative and helpful. I’ve printed it out to keep it hand for reading again when I feel the need. Thank you! I”m a male that is just 5′2″ tall and I often find that taller males try to intimidate me or not take my input as serious as they might if I were taller. I found your article very informative and helpful. I’ve printed it out to keep it hand for reading again when I feel the need. Thank you!

]]> By: John Doe http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/#comment-782 John Doe Wed, 27 Aug 2008 18:12:46 +0000 http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/#comment-782 I"m a male that is just 5'2" tall and I often find that taller males try to intimidate me or not take my input as serious as they might if I were taller. I found your article very informative and helpful. I've printed it out to keep it hand for reading again when I feel the need. Thank you! I”m a male that is just 5′2″ tall and I often find that taller males try to intimidate me or not take my input as serious as they might if I were taller. I found your article very informative and helpful. I’ve printed it out to keep it hand for reading again when I feel the need. Thank you!

]]> By: Brian http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/#comment-646 Brian Thu, 31 Jul 2008 08:18:43 +0000 http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/#comment-646 Seeking approval without being aware of it? You are a perfect target. Talented and happy? Ditto. -The fact is we may be a threat to certain people and not realize it. We may NEVER get approval from certain people in our lives because of various reasons yet we keep trying and causing tormenting to ourselves. Since we are hard wired to seek approval to ensure our early survival, this new approach can take some getting used to! -Compare the number of compliments to the number of insults or slights you get from certain people. When I started to do that I had to ask myself -why exactly I was wasting ANY of my time time with them?? Eliminating my need for approval from my siblings freed me from a lot of wasted energy and now they know that any abuse has me heading for the door........... Seeking approval without being aware of it?
You are a perfect target.

Talented and happy?
Ditto.

-The fact is we may be a threat to certain people and not realize it. We may NEVER get approval from certain people in our lives because of various reasons yet we keep trying and causing tormenting to ourselves.

Since we are hard wired to seek approval to ensure our early survival, this new approach can take some getting used to!

-Compare the number of compliments to the number of insults or slights you get from certain people. When I started to do that I had to ask myself -why exactly I was wasting ANY of my time time with them??

Eliminating my need for approval from my siblings freed me from a lot of wasted energy and now they know that any abuse has me heading for the door………..

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/#comment-632 Anonymous Wed, 23 Jul 2008 17:06:50 +0000 http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/#comment-632 What about people that make fun of you no matter what you do? There are some people that attack me about how young I am and constantly do so, regardless of if I ignore them, fight back, or shrug it off. What about people that make fun of you no matter what you do? There are some people that attack me about how young I am and constantly do so, regardless of if I ignore them, fight back, or shrug it off.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/#comment-579 Anonymous Tue, 15 Jul 2008 13:31:37 +0000 http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/#comment-579 hi Being victim of an abuser, when one day I had had enough while he stood in my face yelling at me, I stopped.... and just stood Still an just slowly looked at him being as he was so close , I looked at his angry eyes, his nose, his deformed mouth,his creased forhead back to his nose an mouth then back at his angry eyes...when he realized he was the only one yelling and looked like a bloody fool he stopped turned and stormed off pissed off putting his fist through the wall but that was the last time he ever got in my face and since I have his respect I had stood up and face my attacker, maybe I was just lucky but something in me said never again would I let someone treat me that way and it has changed my life, noone has the right to treat me with disrespect and intimidation no matter their size...I had taken my power back ... lesson learned Radine hi
Being victim of an abuser, when one day I had had enough while he stood in my face yelling at me, I stopped…. and just stood Still an just slowly looked at him being as he was so close , I looked at his angry eyes, his nose, his deformed mouth,his creased forhead back to his nose an mouth then back at his angry eyes…when he realized he was the only one yelling and looked like a bloody fool he stopped turned and stormed off pissed off putting his fist through the wall but that was the last time he ever got in my face and since I have his respect I had stood up and face my attacker, maybe I was just lucky but something in me said never again would I let someone treat me that way and it has changed my life, noone has the right to treat me with disrespect and intimidation no matter their size…I had taken my power back … lesson learned
Radine

]]> By: Inspiring Links: Week of 13th July 2008 | Life Coaches Blog http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/#comment-561 Inspiring Links: Week of 13th July 2008 | Life Coaches Blog Sat, 12 Jul 2008 23:00:43 +0000 http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/#comment-561 [...] “Every technique employed by the instigator has a single goal: to take your power away from you. Every one of us has a fighting spirit, a confidence that allows us to wake up in the morning, and take on the world. Your verbal attacker is going to try and take this away from you, to leave you nervous, doubting yourself, and even stuttering.” Jay Morrissey reveals how to handle verbal intimidation tactics in The Art of Verbal Intimidation: Learn it and Fight Back! [...] […] “Every technique employed by the instigator has a single goal: to take your power away from you. Every one of us has a fighting spirit, a confidence that allows us to wake up in the morning, and take on the world. Your verbal attacker is going to try and take this away from you, to leave you nervous, doubting yourself, and even stuttering.” Jay Morrissey reveals how to handle verbal intimidation tactics in The Art of Verbal Intimidation: Learn it and Fight Back! […]

]]> By: Christoff http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/#comment-495 Christoff Tue, 24 Jun 2008 08:26:49 +0000 http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/#comment-495 Thanks for the good comment. I like the way you wrote. Thanks for the good comment. I like the way you wrote.

]]> By: wanli http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/#comment-360 wanli Wed, 14 May 2008 23:08:41 +0000 http://www.jaymorrissey.com/2008/01/09/the-art-of-verbal-intimidation-learn-it-and-fight-back/#comment-360 This art of verbal intimidation is quite a new variation o fart. Its quite effective and can send a strong message in volatile places. I like the way you ad to it ferris wanli and can include on it in many variety of senses. Its basic to the inherit method of ideology and quantum science to use the thought and art in a profound form and expression. This art of verbal intimidation is quite a new variation o fart. Its quite effective and can send a strong message in volatile places. I like the way you ad to it ferris wanli and can include on it in many variety of senses. Its basic to the inherit method of ideology and quantum science to use the thought and art in a profound form and expression.

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